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Monday, October 17, 2005

A Different Culture (Written 10/15/05)

Well I walked around Apia a bit today just to get a feel for the place and see if paradise was all it was cracked up to be. Unfortunately, like every major city no matter where you go – once you look underneath the surface that is projected for the tourists, things look a lot different. As I walked around I saw the ‘houses’ in which people tend to leave called ‘Fales’ (FALL As), but unlike a traditional house in the states there tend to be no or few walls between the inside of the house and the outside world. I know its hard to imagine a house made only of poles but no walls, but it’s a regular occurrence in Apia and from what I hear the rest of Samoa. The walk around gave me a better understanding of as far as this culture has come, the Peace Corps still has a lot of work to do here in order to improve the quality of living. Not just in the way people live – which is the traditional Samoan way – but since people live in a house without walls they tend not to have computers (the reason I am here). While in the states a computer is almost a dime a dozen, here in Samoa it seems to be an item that most people can live without (for better or for worse). While I was walking around the town a bit, I felt like I was back in Chicago on the west side or the residential area surrounding a sports complex – the standard of living was almost equivalent. But the good thing is that these people are truly happy and while I as an American may look on there situation as kind of bad, part of my training here is to see things as a Samoan would see them. So sometimes its good to get some alone time to just see the culture as the way a native would. But this is also a different culture in that they are tremendously affected by Western civilization (whereas we American aren’t very affected by the output of other countries). In the 4 days I have been here I have heard buses with subwoofers on them blaring through the street, I’ve heard Eminem, 50 Cent and Kanye West played on a lot of speakers throughout the city. While in the American culture, we know these artists say some bad things sometimes but for the most part many Americans don’t repeat what they hear in these songs. The same can not be said for most Samoans – because this is what they hear from the states. So as I was walking around today, I had my first encounter with the ‘n’ word. While I was warned about it before it was still a shocker to just hear someone, not meaning any harm, just come up to me and say it multiple times. The bad part about it is its hard to explain to them that I am an African-American because if you say that the ask if you’re from Africa. So as in my culture where its kind of easy to get people on the right track – or just explain to them how offensive some words can be – here its different because they constantly hear these types of things from the radio and television. I just have to remind myself that this is a different culture and while I may not be able to change the whole island’s mindset, I can start one person at a time – who knows in two years they may no longer say that word. BTW, I am one of 3 African-Americans on the island (the other 2 being women) and it came as a shocker to all of us the first time we heard it – so at least I’m not alone in that regard. L8r.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

So....Samoans are very "flip" with the use of the "N" word.....I am sure in their culture they have a word which they consider an insult.How can 3 people make a difference...."One Day At a Time".
Love ya:)

Anonymous said...

Marques,

Sorry you had to go through that but like you stated its what they hear from the Western-style media; radio, TV, the culture, etc.

Those Samoans down there have no idea what context they are using that word, and likewise are using it loosely because of what they don't fully understand how offensive it is.

Once they come up here to the states, they will see firsthand what its like. I am Samoan, and have been called the "N" word by bigots here in Utah, Idaho, and even in liveral Northern CA (north of Sacramento); even had a full Schlitz beer bottle thrown at me when I was 12 living in KC, Mo. by 3 white men shouting "go home sand n_gger"!!! so until they understand how derogatory it is, unfortunately they will have to be schooled the long way and that is through education by you and everyone else. So sorry to hear that you're going through that!

My extended family here is Samoan and we have many races marrying into our family, white, black, Mexican, Filipino, Greek, Lebanese, Navaho, Japanese, Puerto Rican, Columbian, etc.

African American brother in law who is a surgeon in Fla (he's one of your rivals, an Ohio State alumni Buckeye), half-African American cousins in Macon, GA, an aunt from Mississippi (who makes the best pigs feet and gumbo), and legions of close family friends from in around the west coast that are all black....one day when we can all see past colors wouldn't it be nice.....my 9 year old asked me that other day, because of his situation being Samoan in a handful of his 97% white school here in Utah, "wouldn't it be nice if everybody had no skin color and we where all the same, because we are underneath?"

Something to think about. And yes, in Kansas City back in the mid 70's when they found out that we were not Indian, or native-American, or Hawaiian, they called us "Samo-Hoes"....at least that is what the African Americans in the project in which we lived called us, the white folks also called us "sand n_gg_rs"....no joke....believe me, once those Samoans go to NZ, Australia, or the US...they will get a rude awakening....

In the meantime, I am enjoying reading your experiences. So nice to have your mother be able to share those with you.

When you are in a foreign country where the overwhelming majority is of one race, and they for the most part have no idea of what it means to be in a multi-cultural society.

Bert Hall
St. George, Utah

Anonymous said...

When I worked for All Nippon Airways and on my first trip to Japan, I was in the hallway walking and three businessmen stopped what they were doing and began shaking uncontollably like there was an earthquake of somekind, while they laughed hysterically. I did not understand it at the time, but they were mocking me because of my size. I was 25 years old, 245#, 6'1" and in their opinion was very overweight. They had likened me to a Sumo wrestler which I am not, and said that I looked like the famous Hawaiian-Samoan Sumo wrestler Konishiki who had to of weighed in excess of 550lbs.
They even suggested in bad broken English that I consider moving to Tokyo, eat chankonabe, gain weight and train to be a Sumo wrestler..though I was somewhat offended, I smiled and laughed but inside I was not too happy that they had said I was overweight because I wasn't.

Why I am telling you this, is because wherever you go in this world, somewhere, someone will do or say something unintentionally without really thinking about how offensive it might because they don't know any better. FYI - there are Samoans, Tongas, Tahitians and Fijians your same complexion so keep your head up, I know you are, but just thought that I would throw that out there....take care

thanks

B